It feels like we just wrapped up the holidays, but here we are—Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! With only two weeks to go, now is the perfect time to start planning something special for your loved one. Whether you’re a seasoned romantic or someone who tends to scramble last minute, this year, let’s aim to create a heartfelt experience that celebrates love in all its forms.

For those of us with kids and the usual whirlwind of family life, finding time to prepare can be a challenge. Between school runs, work commitments, and endless to-do lists, it’s easy to let Valentine’s Day slip through the cracks. But taking the time to plan something thoughtful doesn’t just show appreciation for your partner—it’s also a wonderful opportunity to reconnect and celebrate your relationship.

Here’s why early preparation matters and some ideas to get you started.

Why Plan Ahead?

1. Avoid Last-Minute Stress

Let’s face it, scrambling for a last-minute gift or reservation is never fun. By planning now, you’ll have time to think through your options, find something meaningful, and avoid the disappointment of fully booked restaurants or delayed deliveries.

2. Show Thoughtfulness

Taking the time to plan something in advance shows your partner that they’re a priority. It’s not about grand gestures; it’s about putting thought and effort into making them feel loved and appreciated.

3. Make It Personal

Early planning allows you to tailor your Valentine’s surprise to your partner’s preferences. Whether they love quiet evenings at home, adventurous outings, or heartfelt handmade gifts, you’ll have time to create something truly special.

4. Set a Positive Example for Your Kids

If you have children, involving them (even subtly) in the planning process can teach them the importance of celebrating love and appreciating those who matter most. Plus, they’ll see firsthand how their parents prioritize each other, which is a beautiful lesson in itself.

Ideas to Get Started

1. Plan a Date Night (At Home or Out)

• At Home: Create a cozy, intimate evening after the kids are in bed. Cook your partner’s favorite meal, light some candles, and enjoy a quiet dinner together. Add a personal touch with a playlist of songs that hold special meaning for both of you.

• Out on the Town: If you’re craving a change of scenery, now’s the time to book a reservation at that restaurant you’ve been wanting to try. Babysitters tend to get booked quickly around Valentine’s, so secure yours early.

2. Thoughtful Gifts

A well-thought-out gift doesn’t have to be expensive. Here are a few ideas:

• A Memory Book: Compile photos and memories from your time together. It’s a sentimental keepsake that your partner will treasure.

• Personalized Jewelry: Consider something with a meaningful engraving, like a special date or a phrase that holds significance for both of you.

• Subscription Box: Whether it’s for coffee, wine, or a shared hobby, subscription boxes make for a gift that keeps on giving.

3. Write a Love Letter

In our digital age, there’s something incredibly romantic about a handwritten letter. Take a few moments to reflect on your journey together, what you appreciate about your partner, and your hopes for the future. It’s a simple yet profoundly meaningful gesture.

4. Plan a Family-Inclusive Celebration

If a night away isn’t feasible, involve the whole family in the festivities. Plan a Valentine’s-themed movie night with heart-shaped snacks and cozy blankets. Or have a fun craft session where everyone makes Valentine’s cards for each other. It’s a great way to include your kids in the celebration while still focusing on the love that holds your family together.

5. Arrange a Surprise Experience

Think outside the box and plan an experience your partner will love. It could be a spa day, a cooking class, or even a weekend getaway (with the kids staying at Grandma’s, perhaps?). Experiences create lasting memories and show that you’ve put thought into planning something unique.

Make Time for Connection

In the busyness of everyday life, it’s easy to put your relationship on the back burner. Valentine’s Day is a gentle reminder to prioritize each other, even amid the chaos of family life. It doesn’t have to be extravagant or picture-perfect—what matters most is the effort and the intention behind it.

So, whether it’s a quiet dinner at home, a surprise gift, or a family movie night, start planning now to make this Valentine’s Day one to remember. After all, love deserves to be celebrated.

Here’s to making time for love and connection this Valentine’s Day!